§ Give
people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
§ Memorize your favorite poem.
§ Don’t believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
§ When you say, “I love you”, mean it.
§ When you say, “I’m sorry”, look the person in the eye.
§ Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
§ Believe in love at first sight.
§ Never laugh at anyone’s dreams.
§ Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it’s the only way to live life completely.
§ In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
§ Don’t judge people by their relatives.
§ Talk slowly but think quickly.
§ When someone asks you a question you don’t want to answer, smile and ask, “Why do you want to know?”
§ Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
§ Call your mom.
§ Say “bless you” when you hear someone sneeze.
§ When you lose, don’t lose the lesson.
§ Remember the three R’s: Respect for self; Respect for others; Responsibility for all your actions.
§ Don’t let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
§ When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
§ Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
§ Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
§ Spend some time alone.
§ Open your arms to change, but don’t let go of your values.
§ Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
§ Read more books and watch less TV.
§ Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you’ll get to enjoy it a second time.
§ Trust in God but lock your car.
§ A loving atmosphere in your home is so important. Do all you can to create a tranquil harmonious home.
§ In disagreements with loved ones, deal with the current situation. Don’t bring up the past.
§ Read between the lines.
§ Share your knowledge. It’s a way to achieve immortality.
§ Be gentle with the earth.
§ Pray. There’s immeasurable power in it.
§ Never interrupt when you are being flattered.
§ Mind your own business.
§ Don’t trust a man/woman who doesn’t close his/her eyes when you kiss.
§ At least once a year, go someplace you’ve never been before.
§ If you make a lot of money, put it to use helping others while you are living. That is wealth’s greatest satisfaction.
§ Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a stroke of luck.
§ Learn the rules then break some.
§ Remember that the best relationship is one where your love for each other is greater than your need for each other.
§ Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.
§ Remember that your character is your destiny.
§ Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.
Thursday, December 17, 2009
What A Dog Teaches
A dog teaches us a lot of things, but we never seem to take notice. These are some
of the lessons you might learn…
· When loved ones come home, always run to greet them.
· Never pass up the opportunity to go for a joyride.
· Allow the experience of fresh air and the wind in your face to be pure ecstasy.
· When it’s in your best interest, practice obedience.
· Let others know when they’ve invaded your territory.
· Take naps and stretch before rising.
· Run romp and play daily.
· Thrive on attention and let people touch you.
· Avoid biting, when a simple growl will do.
· On warm days stop to lie on your back on the grass. On hot days drink lots of water and lay under a shady tree.
· When you’re happy dance around and wag your entire body.
· No matter how often you’re scolded don’t buy into the guilt thing and pout. Run
right back and make friends.
· Delight in the simple joy of a long walk.
· Eat with gusto and enthusiasm, stop when you have had enough.
· Be loyal.
· Never pretend to be something you’re not.
· If what you want lies buried dig until you find it.
· When someone is having a bad day be silent, sit close by… and nuzzle them gently.
of the lessons you might learn…
· When loved ones come home, always run to greet them.
· Never pass up the opportunity to go for a joyride.
· Allow the experience of fresh air and the wind in your face to be pure ecstasy.
· When it’s in your best interest, practice obedience.
· Let others know when they’ve invaded your territory.
· Take naps and stretch before rising.
· Run romp and play daily.
· Thrive on attention and let people touch you.
· Avoid biting, when a simple growl will do.
· On warm days stop to lie on your back on the grass. On hot days drink lots of water and lay under a shady tree.
· When you’re happy dance around and wag your entire body.
· No matter how often you’re scolded don’t buy into the guilt thing and pout. Run
right back and make friends.
· Delight in the simple joy of a long walk.
· Eat with gusto and enthusiasm, stop when you have had enough.
· Be loyal.
· Never pretend to be something you’re not.
· If what you want lies buried dig until you find it.
· When someone is having a bad day be silent, sit close by… and nuzzle them gently.
10 Principles for Peace of Mind
1. Do Not Interfere In Others' Business Unless Asked:
Most of us create our own problems by interfering too often in others' affairs. We do so because somehow we have convinced ourselves that our way is the best way, our logic is the perfect logic and those who do not conform to our thinking must be criticized and steered to the right direction, our direction. This thinking denies the existence of individuality and consequently the existence of
God.. God has created each one of us in a unique way.
No two human beings can think or act in exactly the same way. All men or women act the way they do because God within them prompts them that way. Mind your own business and you will keep your peace.
2. Forgive And Forget:
This is the most powerful aid to peace of mind. We often develop ill feelings inside our heart for the person who insults us or harms us. We nurture grievances. This in turn results in loss of sleep, development of stomach ulcers, and high blood pressure. This insult or injury was done once, but nourishing of grievance goes on forever by constantly remembering it. Get over this bad habit. Life is too short to waste in such trifles. Forgive,20Forget, and march on. Love flourishes in giving and forgiving.
3. Do Not Crave For Recognition:
This world is full of selfish people. They seldom praise anybody without selfish motives. They may praise you today because you are in power, but no sooner than you are powerless, they will forget your achievement and will start finding faults in you. Why do you wish to kill yourself in striving for their recognition? Their recognition is not worth the aggravation. Do your duties ethically and sincerely.
4. Do Not Be Jealous:
We all have experienced how jealousy can disturb our peace of mind. You know that you work harder than your colleagues in the office, but sometimes they get promotions; you do not. You started a business several years ago, but you are not as successful as your neighbor whose business is only one year old. There are several examples like these in everyday life. Should you be jealous? No.
Remember everybody's life is shaped by his/her destiny, which has now become his/her reality. If you are destined to be rich, nothing in the world can stop you. If you are not so destined, no one can help you either. Nothing will be gained by blaming others for your misfortune. Jealousy will not get you anywhere; it will only take away your peace of mind.
5. Change Yourself According To The Environment:
If you try to change the environment single-handedly, the chances are you will fail. Instead, change yourself to suit your environment. As you do this, even the environment, which has been unfriendly to you, will mysteriously change and seem congenial and harmonious.
6. Endure What Cannot Be Cured:
This is the best way to turn a disadvantage into an advantage. Every day we face numerous inconveniences, ailments, irritations, and accidents that are beyond our control. If we cannot control them or change them, we must learn to put up with these things. We must learn to endure them cheerfully. Believe in yourself and you will gain in terms of patience, inner strength and will power.
7. Do Not Bite Off More Than You Can Chew:
This maxim needs to be remembered constantly. We often tend to take more responsibilities than we are capable of carrying out. This is done to satisfy our ego. Know your limitations. . Why take on additional loads that may create more worries? You cannot gain peace of mind by expanding your external activities. Reduce your material engagements and spend time in prayer, introspection and
meditation. This will reduce those thoughts in your mind that make you restless. Uncluttered mind will produce greater peace of mind.
8. Meditate Regularly:
Meditation calms the mind and gets rid of disturbing thoughts. This is the highest state of peace of mind. Try and experience it yourself. If you meditate earnestly for half an hour everyday, your mind will tend to become peaceful during the remaining twenty-three and half-hours. Your mind will not be easily disturbed as it was before.
You would benefit by gradually increasing the period of daily meditation. You may think that this will interfere with your daily work. On the contrary, this will increase your efficiency and you will be able to produce better results in less time.
9. Never Leave The Mind Vacant:
An empty mind is the devil's workshop. All evil actions start in the vacant mind. Keep your mind occupied in something positive, something worthwhile. Actively follow a hobby. Do something that holds your interest. You must decide what you value more: money or peace of mind. Your hobby, like social work or religious work, may not always earn you more money, but you will have a sense of fulfillment and achievement. Even when you are resting physically, occupy yourself in healthy reading or mental chanting of God's name.
10. Do Not Procrastinate And Never Regret:
Do not waste time in protracted wondering " Should I or shouldn't I?" Days, weeks, months, and years may be wasted in that futile mental debating. You can never plan enough because you can never anticipate all future happenings. Value your time and do the things that need to be done.
It does not matter if you fail the first time. You can learn from your mistakes and succeed the next time. Sitting back and worrying will lead to nothing. Learn from your mistakes, but do not brood over the past. DO NOT REGRET. Whatever happened was destined to happen only that way. Why cry over spilt milk?.
Most of us create our own problems by interfering too often in others' affairs. We do so because somehow we have convinced ourselves that our way is the best way, our logic is the perfect logic and those who do not conform to our thinking must be criticized and steered to the right direction, our direction. This thinking denies the existence of individuality and consequently the existence of
God.. God has created each one of us in a unique way.
No two human beings can think or act in exactly the same way. All men or women act the way they do because God within them prompts them that way. Mind your own business and you will keep your peace.
2. Forgive And Forget:
This is the most powerful aid to peace of mind. We often develop ill feelings inside our heart for the person who insults us or harms us. We nurture grievances. This in turn results in loss of sleep, development of stomach ulcers, and high blood pressure. This insult or injury was done once, but nourishing of grievance goes on forever by constantly remembering it. Get over this bad habit. Life is too short to waste in such trifles. Forgive,20Forget, and march on. Love flourishes in giving and forgiving.
3. Do Not Crave For Recognition:
This world is full of selfish people. They seldom praise anybody without selfish motives. They may praise you today because you are in power, but no sooner than you are powerless, they will forget your achievement and will start finding faults in you. Why do you wish to kill yourself in striving for their recognition? Their recognition is not worth the aggravation. Do your duties ethically and sincerely.
4. Do Not Be Jealous:
We all have experienced how jealousy can disturb our peace of mind. You know that you work harder than your colleagues in the office, but sometimes they get promotions; you do not. You started a business several years ago, but you are not as successful as your neighbor whose business is only one year old. There are several examples like these in everyday life. Should you be jealous? No.
Remember everybody's life is shaped by his/her destiny, which has now become his/her reality. If you are destined to be rich, nothing in the world can stop you. If you are not so destined, no one can help you either. Nothing will be gained by blaming others for your misfortune. Jealousy will not get you anywhere; it will only take away your peace of mind.
5. Change Yourself According To The Environment:
If you try to change the environment single-handedly, the chances are you will fail. Instead, change yourself to suit your environment. As you do this, even the environment, which has been unfriendly to you, will mysteriously change and seem congenial and harmonious.
6. Endure What Cannot Be Cured:
This is the best way to turn a disadvantage into an advantage. Every day we face numerous inconveniences, ailments, irritations, and accidents that are beyond our control. If we cannot control them or change them, we must learn to put up with these things. We must learn to endure them cheerfully. Believe in yourself and you will gain in terms of patience, inner strength and will power.
7. Do Not Bite Off More Than You Can Chew:
This maxim needs to be remembered constantly. We often tend to take more responsibilities than we are capable of carrying out. This is done to satisfy our ego. Know your limitations. . Why take on additional loads that may create more worries? You cannot gain peace of mind by expanding your external activities. Reduce your material engagements and spend time in prayer, introspection and
meditation. This will reduce those thoughts in your mind that make you restless. Uncluttered mind will produce greater peace of mind.
8. Meditate Regularly:
Meditation calms the mind and gets rid of disturbing thoughts. This is the highest state of peace of mind. Try and experience it yourself. If you meditate earnestly for half an hour everyday, your mind will tend to become peaceful during the remaining twenty-three and half-hours. Your mind will not be easily disturbed as it was before.
You would benefit by gradually increasing the period of daily meditation. You may think that this will interfere with your daily work. On the contrary, this will increase your efficiency and you will be able to produce better results in less time.
9. Never Leave The Mind Vacant:
An empty mind is the devil's workshop. All evil actions start in the vacant mind. Keep your mind occupied in something positive, something worthwhile. Actively follow a hobby. Do something that holds your interest. You must decide what you value more: money or peace of mind. Your hobby, like social work or religious work, may not always earn you more money, but you will have a sense of fulfillment and achievement. Even when you are resting physically, occupy yourself in healthy reading or mental chanting of God's name.
10. Do Not Procrastinate And Never Regret:
Do not waste time in protracted wondering " Should I or shouldn't I?" Days, weeks, months, and years may be wasted in that futile mental debating. You can never plan enough because you can never anticipate all future happenings. Value your time and do the things that need to be done.
It does not matter if you fail the first time. You can learn from your mistakes and succeed the next time. Sitting back and worrying will lead to nothing. Learn from your mistakes, but do not brood over the past. DO NOT REGRET. Whatever happened was destined to happen only that way. Why cry over spilt milk?.
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Take charge of your life
in this sale trade since beginning of the year... and finally i realize alot of thing... the human joke... wat human joke? ppl who keep complaining abt the whole wide world but nv take action to pull themselves out of the dung! funny isn't it?
if u think educated ppl can earn big bucks, den go ahead and upgrade urself, be an educated person and work as a high paid management level associate.
If u think only bosses can earn big bucks, den take the challenge... no pain no gain... be ur own boss! be in sales! sell urself! wat can i say, marketing is everything! its all abt selling ur product, selling urself~!
If u keep complaining abt the whole wide world and claim tat u ain't the kind who can study, claim that u ain't the kind who can do sales, claim that u not the kind who can be boss, den quit complaining abt pay not enough, lifestyle not gd, money not enough, boss is mean, colleague sux, workplace politics! cos guess wat, serve urself rite, cos its u who refuse to get out of this dung! i have enough of nonsense from ppl who are stuck in shit and tell me 'hmmmm... its ok lah, am not interested in this kind of job, this kind of biz'! rubbish! u r at the verge of the cliff and yet u refuse to hold on to the survivor rope! u're nth diff from committing suicide!!! this kind of person should jus go and die... the thing is its fine that u die, but its the innocent kids that r left behind suffering... to me, kids are nv born to experience sufferings... they should enjoy like a kids and not take the rubbish create by the adults during their childhood time! but always, there r brainless and stupid ppl ard!
Buddhism have one saying: you dun offer the beggar money but show them, teach them how to earn a living. even if i hav the money, i won't lend these irresponsible idiots a single cent, they wan it, they earn it and not borrow and nv return!
i can't be the one carry u ard, i can only be the one teaching u how to walk!
i respect my sis, thou she always say that she dun hav a biz mind, thou she rejected my biz offer, but she noe what she wan and she still climbing up her ladder of success...
be focus, noe wat u wan and do wat u wan. cos the world won't change for jus u, but u can change for the world and create wat u wan...
if u think educated ppl can earn big bucks, den go ahead and upgrade urself, be an educated person and work as a high paid management level associate.
If u think only bosses can earn big bucks, den take the challenge... no pain no gain... be ur own boss! be in sales! sell urself! wat can i say, marketing is everything! its all abt selling ur product, selling urself~!
If u keep complaining abt the whole wide world and claim tat u ain't the kind who can study, claim that u ain't the kind who can do sales, claim that u not the kind who can be boss, den quit complaining abt pay not enough, lifestyle not gd, money not enough, boss is mean, colleague sux, workplace politics! cos guess wat, serve urself rite, cos its u who refuse to get out of this dung! i have enough of nonsense from ppl who are stuck in shit and tell me 'hmmmm... its ok lah, am not interested in this kind of job, this kind of biz'! rubbish! u r at the verge of the cliff and yet u refuse to hold on to the survivor rope! u're nth diff from committing suicide!!! this kind of person should jus go and die... the thing is its fine that u die, but its the innocent kids that r left behind suffering... to me, kids are nv born to experience sufferings... they should enjoy like a kids and not take the rubbish create by the adults during their childhood time! but always, there r brainless and stupid ppl ard!
Buddhism have one saying: you dun offer the beggar money but show them, teach them how to earn a living. even if i hav the money, i won't lend these irresponsible idiots a single cent, they wan it, they earn it and not borrow and nv return!
i can't be the one carry u ard, i can only be the one teaching u how to walk!
i respect my sis, thou she always say that she dun hav a biz mind, thou she rejected my biz offer, but she noe what she wan and she still climbing up her ladder of success...
be focus, noe wat u wan and do wat u wan. cos the world won't change for jus u, but u can change for the world and create wat u wan...
Sunday, October 11, 2009
曲名：练习
歌手：刘德华
如果留下多一秒钟
可以减少明天想你的痛
我会愿意放下所有
交换任何一丝丝可能的占有
幸福只剩一杯沙漏
眼睁睁看着一幕幕甜蜜
不会再有原来平凡无奇的拥有
到现在竟像是无助的奢求
我已开始练习
开始慢慢着急
着急这世界没有你
已经和眼泪说好不哭泣
但倒数计时的爱该怎么继续
我天天练习
天天都会熟悉
在没有你的城市里
试着删除每个两人世界里
那些曾经共同拥有的一切美好和回忆
~music~
幸福只剩一杯沙漏
眼睁睁看着一幕幕甜蜜
不会再有原来平凡无奇的拥有
到现在竟像是无助的奢求
我已开始练习
开始慢慢着急
着急这世界没有你
已经和眼泪说好不哭泣
但倒数计时的爱该怎么继续
我天天练习
天天都会熟悉
在没有你的城市里
试着删除每个两人世界里
那些曾经共同拥有的一切美好和回忆
爱是一万公顷的森林
迷了路的却是我和你
不是说好一起闯出去
怎能剩我一人回去
回去/
我已开始练习
开始慢慢着急
着急这世界没有你
已经和眼泪说好不哭泣
但倒数计时的爱该怎么继续
我天天练习
天天都会熟悉
在没有你的城市里
试着删除每个两人世界里
那些曾经共同拥有的一切美好和回忆
那些曾经共同拥有的一切美好和回忆
I laugh at myself as i hide away my mobile...
I'm wondering how long this withdrawal syndromes last...
Finally, i realized... You don't deserve...
Monday, August 17, 2009
Attending Boss Guan's festival
This is a very special yet interesting post... its kinda, hmmmm, i mean very religious... so if ya very sensitive abt religious stuffs... hmmm... better skip this entry... :)
well, had spent my last weekend at 關龍殿善堂, wonder wat's that? its a sin tua... hmmm... ya noe, taoism, the 'temple' that they worship their god... over here, they worship 关帝爷, whom we known as 关公, 关羽... yup yup, the one that u watch in red cliff, read in the historical novel: Romance of the Three Kingdoms. As everyone noe that he was respect for his loyalty and righteousness, until today he's still being greatly respect and worship by the people...
Thanks to dearie... my 1st real encounter with a sin tua... well, i hav been there quite a few times, so wat ppl doing over there? other den praying, during the lunar 1st and 15th of the mth, there are routine events gng on, for consultation... hmmm... dearie been there since his teenage, just out of curiosity, i 1st step into the sin tua 2 mths+ ago, wanting to take a look at the biggest "guan di ye" statue in singapore, he's standing at a height abt 2.5m. After that i often join dearie to the sin tua, din really pray but just accompany him :p
to be exact, that's not totally my 1st encounter. however, the time when i came across with all this stuffs, i'm only abt 7 or younger den that... i dun exactly noe what actually gng on, just seeing some trancing of gods, how exactly it happen or how it stop, i totally have no idea. i only noe when u see these ppl on the street, its some 'da ri zi' and u jus have to bring both ur palms together and pray... after some times, mum was no longer involve in all these and she turn into a Christian soon after grandpa and grandma died. my whole family become so "Christianize"... -_-! ok... i always been a free thinker... in fact am more toward Buddhism and Taoism, maybe due to my sec sch and my childhood times...
ok... back to topic... spend my whole of last weekend experiencing the practice and belief of taoism... gng thru' the entire ceremony... very interesting i'll say... there's so many things that u couldn't explain using scientific logic... especially trancing (起乩)... i shall leave the mystery unrevealed... well, if u wanna noe den ask me in private ba... anyway... do visit the their webby guanlongdianshantang.multiply.com
關龍殿善堂 is located at No.78 Geylang Road Lorong 6.
well, had spent my last weekend at 關龍殿善堂, wonder wat's that? its a sin tua... hmmm... ya noe, taoism, the 'temple' that they worship their god... over here, they worship 关帝爷, whom we known as 关公, 关羽... yup yup, the one that u watch in red cliff, read in the historical novel: Romance of the Three Kingdoms. As everyone noe that he was respect for his loyalty and righteousness, until today he's still being greatly respect and worship by the people...
Thanks to dearie... my 1st real encounter with a sin tua... well, i hav been there quite a few times, so wat ppl doing over there? other den praying, during the lunar 1st and 15th of the mth, there are routine events gng on, for consultation... hmmm... dearie been there since his teenage, just out of curiosity, i 1st step into the sin tua 2 mths+ ago, wanting to take a look at the biggest "guan di ye" statue in singapore, he's standing at a height abt 2.5m. After that i often join dearie to the sin tua, din really pray but just accompany him :p
to be exact, that's not totally my 1st encounter. however, the time when i came across with all this stuffs, i'm only abt 7 or younger den that... i dun exactly noe what actually gng on, just seeing some trancing of gods, how exactly it happen or how it stop, i totally have no idea. i only noe when u see these ppl on the street, its some 'da ri zi' and u jus have to bring both ur palms together and pray... after some times, mum was no longer involve in all these and she turn into a Christian soon after grandpa and grandma died. my whole family become so "Christianize"... -_-! ok... i always been a free thinker... in fact am more toward Buddhism and Taoism, maybe due to my sec sch and my childhood times...
ok... back to topic... spend my whole of last weekend experiencing the practice and belief of taoism... gng thru' the entire ceremony... very interesting i'll say... there's so many things that u couldn't explain using scientific logic... especially trancing (起乩)... i shall leave the mystery unrevealed... well, if u wanna noe den ask me in private ba... anyway... do visit the their webby guanlongdianshantang.multiply.com
關龍殿善堂 is located at No.78 Geylang Road Lorong 6.
Tuesday, August 11, 2009
Passionate Libran
Extract from FB application:
Jeslyn viewed her Love Zodiac Profile for the zodiac sign Libra.
If you are Libra:
You are fantastic and a very sexy lover. You love mush and romance in your relationships. You like to flirt even when you are committed but most of it is harmless fun. You tend to trust anyone very fast. So be careful because you fall in love too fast. You love peaceful dinners and relaxed evening walks with your partner. You are an extremely passionate lover and the opposite sex adores you for that. You express your love whenever and wherever you can. You take great care of your sweetheart and shower all your attention on your sweetheart.
Your kissing style:
Your kisses are wild and amazing.
To attract you, the opposite sex must be:
Stylish, sophisticated, attentive, mysterious, etc.
You are more compatible with - Aries, Aquarius, Gemini
You are less compatible with - Scorpio, Virgo, Capricorn
Sunday, August 02, 2009
Cadbury Eyebrows
these days seems like everyone gng GAGA over tat Cadbury Eyebrows ad... they even have a contest for that... real cool... i myself can't do tat eyebrows so... ya... haha... here u goes, the ad:
and i dun noe that sg can do tat way also... one of the best that i hav seen so fast... enjoy, ppl...
and i dun noe that sg can do tat way also... one of the best that i hav seen so fast... enjoy, ppl...
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
曲名：触电
歌手：S.H.E
风走在我们前面 甩裙摆画著圆圈
花美得兴高采烈 那香味有点阴险
你在我旁边的旁边 但影子却肩碰肩
偷看一眼 你的唇边 是不是也有笑意明显
明明是昨天的事情 怎麼今天我还在经历
一丁点回忆都能惊天又动地
想问个愚蠢问题 我们再这样下去
你猜会走到哪里
但请你不要太快揭开还沉默的情话
先让我多著急一下再终於等到解答
太容易的爱故事就不耐人回味啦
像这样触电 就够我快乐熔化
我们就耐心培养萌芽不要急著开花
反正有长长的日记等我们去填满它
在被全世界发现以前先愉快装傻
就这样触电 一直甜蜜触电
直到爆炸
像一年四个季节 都被你变成夏天
我才会在你面前 总是被晒红了脸
像一百万个秋千 在我心里面叛变
被你指尖 碰到指尖 我瞬间就被汤到天边
明明是昨天的事情 怎麼今天我还在经历
一丁点回忆都能惊天又动地
想问个愚蠢问题 我们再这样下去
你猜会走到哪里
但请你不要太快揭开还沉默的情话
先让我多著急一下再终於等到解答
太容易的爱故事就不耐人回味啦
像这样触电 就够我快乐熔化
我们就耐心培养萌芽不要急著开花
反正有长长的日记等我们去填满它
在被全世界发现以前先愉快装傻
就这样触电 一直甜蜜触电
直到爆炸
Sunday, July 19, 2009
To be a better me
Back from my ABC course, Awareness Before Change.
Wat can i say? this cos is one of the best course i ever attend... nah! its not abt selling techniques and skills... its abt how to be a better me, suitable for everyone, even those who ain't financial adviser...
It taught me abt realizing my bad pt... cherish the ppl ard me especially my mum and dad, my family... thru' meditation, visualization, we r ask to do a reflection on our actions all these while... den we share our experience, share our life story... those tat are truely from the bottom of our hearts...
Shall not touch further on the course tat i went thru, jus wanna share the gd things tat i did since the day i came back.
Yesterday, i did a 'confrontation' wif my mum... i told her abt my dream of wanting to give them a better life, my wish to contribute the the family before its too late... i am aware of my bad temper and had been throwing tantrums at them and am sorry abt that... i'm changing, i promise tat i will change into a better person. sorry for making her upset, i love her and thank u for all wat she hav done... thou' i cried while saying all these, but when i see mum's tears, i noe tat all wat i hav said is worth of, i will do my best to improve myself and serve my duty as a daughter. now my relationship wif my family had improve and nth can be compare wif them nor replace them... i love my family... and i wan to make my house a better place to live in...
I learn abt making earth a better place for everyone, by being happy... when i'm happy, ppl ard will be happy too... dun fight anger wif anger, means when ppl try to make u angry, u dun respond wif anger... but respond the opposite, just be happy and tell the angry man to relax and stay cool... u will make his day... really... try it...
Just a few verse to share wif everyone:
For thing to change, i must change 1st.
Success is a mind game, nothing more, nothing less.
When there is love, nothing is too much trouble and there will always be time.
Guys, so let make earth a better world, stay positive and happy ya~ ;)
Wat can i say? this cos is one of the best course i ever attend... nah! its not abt selling techniques and skills... its abt how to be a better me, suitable for everyone, even those who ain't financial adviser...
It taught me abt realizing my bad pt... cherish the ppl ard me especially my mum and dad, my family... thru' meditation, visualization, we r ask to do a reflection on our actions all these while... den we share our experience, share our life story... those tat are truely from the bottom of our hearts...
Shall not touch further on the course tat i went thru, jus wanna share the gd things tat i did since the day i came back.
Yesterday, i did a 'confrontation' wif my mum... i told her abt my dream of wanting to give them a better life, my wish to contribute the the family before its too late... i am aware of my bad temper and had been throwing tantrums at them and am sorry abt that... i'm changing, i promise tat i will change into a better person. sorry for making her upset, i love her and thank u for all wat she hav done... thou' i cried while saying all these, but when i see mum's tears, i noe tat all wat i hav said is worth of, i will do my best to improve myself and serve my duty as a daughter. now my relationship wif my family had improve and nth can be compare wif them nor replace them... i love my family... and i wan to make my house a better place to live in...
I learn abt making earth a better place for everyone, by being happy... when i'm happy, ppl ard will be happy too... dun fight anger wif anger, means when ppl try to make u angry, u dun respond wif anger... but respond the opposite, just be happy and tell the angry man to relax and stay cool... u will make his day... really... try it...
Just a few verse to share wif everyone:
Guys, so let make earth a better world, stay positive and happy ya~ ;)
Saturday, July 11, 2009
Tattoo Freak
ya ya... am the agent who advise u on ur financial... am oso the one who got alot of inks on me...
personally i dun think having inks is a hooligan act... In recent years, more and more people begin to accept tattoo as arts rather den a symbol of secret society... in the past, many of it do associate with the secret society out there, but not as much in today's world... Tattoo had become a form of art, a master pc which is seal on to a human canvas... nowadays people go for quality inks, artistic design, like:
oriental design - what we known as japanese drawings, koi fishes, phoenix, dragons, geisha, etc.
Portrait - basically to 'transfer' a photography on ur skin, portrait of a pet dog, portrait of your love one, etc.
Tribal - i dun think i'll need to further explain on tribal, every one noe abt it, its popular in the early 2000 i guess, however in the modern society today, people tend to look for something more complex. but still, some people prefer tribal to others.
Biomech - i only get to know this since early of the yr, how should i describe it... hmmm... it give me a very robotic, metallic kinda feel... more suitable for guys i feel... and this is the definition i got from some sites: "Artistic bodies and body parts that have the feel of biological and mechanical components. If you're a Star Trek fan, think "Borg". Wires, tubes, pipes, and hoses are common attributes of biomechanical designs."
Ripped off skin - One of my Fav, its ink in a way that u will visual ur skin as been ripped off kind, but of cos its not really been ripped, its just a 3D effect tat is done thru' tattoo... i heart this as its really a form of art, especially when u got someone who can do it so well, which make it look so real.
there's still so many kinda design out there, am just highlight a few common ones...
so far i hav just update my 1st ink, which is done like last yr oct... very fast, i had already got my 3rd ink done... a recap, my 1st ink which is a tribal Gecko design with a DeSoLo logo...
my 1st ink which is treated as a 23rd yr old birthday gift for myself... after a consideration of 2 yrs, since the age of 21, finally i got it done on my 23rd birthday. totally love this ink, even until today! as compared among all the inks i hav, this is the smallest, most painless... the tattoo process last abt an hr or so... done next to my belly button... i'll say tat area is a great spot to be ink on, least pain u will feel. but gers, do bear in mind tat in future when u get pregnent, the ink will be stretch and shrink after giving birth, the ink might go out of shape so...
and my 2nd ink, a Libra Lady. Done by my favorite Indonesian Tattooist, Mr AG from Brisik Tattoo. Got it done during the sg 1st tattoo show which is held in Jan 09 @ expo. it suppose to go for a competition title tattoo of the day, but sad to say, not able to finish it on time... so hav to give it a pass, shall wait for next yr's convention den...
its a detailed design, as u see this tattoo is rather complex and fill with different colours and details... it took a total of 10 hrs to "complete", 1st day i did a 7 hrs of inking str8 and continue another 3 hrs the next day right after... it sound crazy i noe... but hav to rush cos my tattooist is not local u see, he gng back to indonesia, i dun wanna leave my lady headless for like one yr... this ink took the longest time to complete, most detailed among the 3 and i consider it to be my largest pc so far... In fact, its only 90% done, there's still some flowers on the scale and some small details which need to be add on...
Finally, my 3rd ink, done on 7th July, just a few days ago... got it from Immortal tattoo... its the tattooist's specialty, vines designs...
As u can see, its not complete yet either, left with the infill of the remaining 3 stars, y is it so...? To painful to continue... opps =X
For those who can't take pain, pls nv nv nv try tattoo at places like this! its my most painful inking experience ever!!! the whole process took only ard 2 hrs, but its enough to kill me, unlike my back pc, i can endure for a 7 hrs, this i can't... its killing me... it hit all the sensitive areas, like the ribs, the area under arms and right in the middle of ur chest! its hell~! i regards this as the worse area to ink on, thou' it look really nice, but think twice b4 u do it... its too late for me to regret... once its done, i hav to complete it, else it will be like neither here nor there... argh... 2 weeks later when its heal, i hav to go back and colour the 3 stars as well as some touch up work to be done... :'( But still i love this new ink too... its vines with 7 stars, as u noe DeSoLo love stars and the no. 7, so this is how it came abt... ;) its in the process of healing, feeling damn itch now... but can't scratch... endure...
if u were to ask me, if i hav done enuff, the ans is no... i won't cover my whole body wif inks... i will only ink on place which i can hide under clothes.... like my back, my body... nothing shall be done on the hands, on the ankles, on the arms... inks to me is not something to show off... i dun carry the mentality of "tattoos have to be place in somewhere everyone can see, cos its for show off", this is not for me... I ink becos i love the arts, i love how this artist do their arts on skin... its not for show off, its for personal pleasure and liking... so ya... dun carry this stupid thots like 'DeSoLo is crazy, tattoo places like this, must well dun tattoo'... ppl who ink without thinking are the real crazy ones and stupid ones... do not allow ur hobbies, ur likings affect ur works... tats y its all hidden...
in fact, i already got my 4th inking waiting for me... it got to be done by AG, a 3D gecko standing on my lap, to be done on jan 2010, sg tattoo convention... waiting for his return... and lastly, an ink which i will get and i must get in time to come... which is a portrait of ash-boi on my should blade... :) if u love me, accept my passion for inking and accept my body of inks... *hug*
Last but not least, a video clip taken when am doing my 2nd ink. feat. Mr AG... enjoy!
personally i dun think having inks is a hooligan act... In recent years, more and more people begin to accept tattoo as arts rather den a symbol of secret society... in the past, many of it do associate with the secret society out there, but not as much in today's world... Tattoo had become a form of art, a master pc which is seal on to a human canvas... nowadays people go for quality inks, artistic design, like:
oriental design - what we known as japanese drawings, koi fishes, phoenix, dragons, geisha, etc.
Portrait - basically to 'transfer' a photography on ur skin, portrait of a pet dog, portrait of your love one, etc.
Tribal - i dun think i'll need to further explain on tribal, every one noe abt it, its popular in the early 2000 i guess, however in the modern society today, people tend to look for something more complex. but still, some people prefer tribal to others.
Biomech - i only get to know this since early of the yr, how should i describe it... hmmm... it give me a very robotic, metallic kinda feel... more suitable for guys i feel... and this is the definition i got from some sites: "Artistic bodies and body parts that have the feel of biological and mechanical components. If you're a Star Trek fan, think "Borg". Wires, tubes, pipes, and hoses are common attributes of biomechanical designs."
Ripped off skin - One of my Fav, its ink in a way that u will visual ur skin as been ripped off kind, but of cos its not really been ripped, its just a 3D effect tat is done thru' tattoo... i heart this as its really a form of art, especially when u got someone who can do it so well, which make it look so real.
there's still so many kinda design out there, am just highlight a few common ones...
so far i hav just update my 1st ink, which is done like last yr oct... very fast, i had already got my 3rd ink done... a recap, my 1st ink which is a tribal Gecko design with a DeSoLo logo...
my 1st ink which is treated as a 23rd yr old birthday gift for myself... after a consideration of 2 yrs, since the age of 21, finally i got it done on my 23rd birthday. totally love this ink, even until today! as compared among all the inks i hav, this is the smallest, most painless... the tattoo process last abt an hr or so... done next to my belly button... i'll say tat area is a great spot to be ink on, least pain u will feel. but gers, do bear in mind tat in future when u get pregnent, the ink will be stretch and shrink after giving birth, the ink might go out of shape so...
and my 2nd ink, a Libra Lady. Done by my favorite Indonesian Tattooist, Mr AG from Brisik Tattoo. Got it done during the sg 1st tattoo show which is held in Jan 09 @ expo. it suppose to go for a competition title tattoo of the day, but sad to say, not able to finish it on time... so hav to give it a pass, shall wait for next yr's convention den...
its a detailed design, as u see this tattoo is rather complex and fill with different colours and details... it took a total of 10 hrs to "complete", 1st day i did a 7 hrs of inking str8 and continue another 3 hrs the next day right after... it sound crazy i noe... but hav to rush cos my tattooist is not local u see, he gng back to indonesia, i dun wanna leave my lady headless for like one yr... this ink took the longest time to complete, most detailed among the 3 and i consider it to be my largest pc so far... In fact, its only 90% done, there's still some flowers on the scale and some small details which need to be add on...
Finally, my 3rd ink, done on 7th July, just a few days ago... got it from Immortal tattoo... its the tattooist's specialty, vines designs...
As u can see, its not complete yet either, left with the infill of the remaining 3 stars, y is it so...? To painful to continue... opps =X
For those who can't take pain, pls nv nv nv try tattoo at places like this! its my most painful inking experience ever!!! the whole process took only ard 2 hrs, but its enough to kill me, unlike my back pc, i can endure for a 7 hrs, this i can't... its killing me... it hit all the sensitive areas, like the ribs, the area under arms and right in the middle of ur chest! its hell~! i regards this as the worse area to ink on, thou' it look really nice, but think twice b4 u do it... its too late for me to regret... once its done, i hav to complete it, else it will be like neither here nor there... argh... 2 weeks later when its heal, i hav to go back and colour the 3 stars as well as some touch up work to be done... :'( But still i love this new ink too... its vines with 7 stars, as u noe DeSoLo love stars and the no. 7, so this is how it came abt... ;) its in the process of healing, feeling damn itch now... but can't scratch... endure...
if u were to ask me, if i hav done enuff, the ans is no... i won't cover my whole body wif inks... i will only ink on place which i can hide under clothes.... like my back, my body... nothing shall be done on the hands, on the ankles, on the arms... inks to me is not something to show off... i dun carry the mentality of "tattoos have to be place in somewhere everyone can see, cos its for show off", this is not for me... I ink becos i love the arts, i love how this artist do their arts on skin... its not for show off, its for personal pleasure and liking... so ya... dun carry this stupid thots like 'DeSoLo is crazy, tattoo places like this, must well dun tattoo'... ppl who ink without thinking are the real crazy ones and stupid ones... do not allow ur hobbies, ur likings affect ur works... tats y its all hidden...
in fact, i already got my 4th inking waiting for me... it got to be done by AG, a 3D gecko standing on my lap, to be done on jan 2010, sg tattoo convention... waiting for his return... and lastly, an ink which i will get and i must get in time to come... which is a portrait of ash-boi on my should blade... :) if u love me, accept my passion for inking and accept my body of inks... *hug*
Last but not least, a video clip taken when am doing my 2nd ink. feat. Mr AG... enjoy!
Friday, June 26, 2009
Porcupine
Nobody knows that DeSoLo can be so like a Porcupine... i can be nice, but at time i can't control my spike. dun get too near, i'll sting u...
the problem is i'll sting ppl who r very close to me... not like my fren, but ppl who r closer den frens... tats my problem... i believe everyone do hav an attitude problem tat is hidden, jus depend on whether its a very bad one or... to me... i consider myself as a rather bad one, but like i say i dun jus sting anyone...
I jus need some times on my own... maybe having expectation in ppl will jus make urself more miserable... the more u expect, the more disappointment u will face i guess...
Monday, June 15, 2009
L.O.V.E
Do not shut love out of your life by saying it is impossible to find.
The quickest way to receive love is to give love.
The fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly.
How you define the word 'love'?
Love exist in many forms... like towards self, family, friends, etc.
How people express love? possession. protection.
self-love... one have to learn to love themselves before loving someone else... as i believe that no one can love u more den u love urself... and only u urself can non-stop loving you...
Family-love... tats wat i call fate... we can't choose which family to be born in... we can't choose who to be our parent... its all pre-arrange and u dun hav a choice... so its fated... and it means by "LAW"... religious as i am, believers of reincarnation... i believe that there's a reason why we r born in this family and not that... something to do wif our past life... we r here to either pay-back or receive the good and bad that we hav accumulated in our previous life. *wink*
Fren-love... as time pass... i hav realize that frenship is somehow jus like those 'BGR'... u hav to hav chemistry, hav to get to noe one another, hav to 'commit' in a way... ppl view it in different ways... personally i feel that frens can be forever but its abt how to maintain it and how the other party synchronize with u... understanding is as important... prephaps u hav to gif in more den a BGR ba... must accept the facts that they hav some other commitment tat they can't always be there whenever u need them... alot of gif... same as u share ur happiness and sadness...
Love - partner... wow... this is the most complicated one... it is suppose to be one and only... but often its not... it suppose to be true, but often its not... high possibility to get hurt... like DeSoLo always say: Be in a Relationship, only if u're prepared to get hurt. If u're not prepared, den better dun be... :)
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Just like the photo posted... "The quickest way to receive love is to give love. The fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly."
Hav to give in-order to receive... holding too tight will only drive the love further...
Sunday, June 14, 2009
Des'ree - Kissing You (Love Theme from Romeo + Juliet 1996)
Pride can stand a thousand trials
The strong will never fall
But watching stars without you
My soul cries
Heaving heart is full of pain
Oooh, oooh, the aching
'Cause I'm kissing you, oooh
I'm kissing you, oooh
Touch me deep, pure and true
Give to me forever
'Cause I'm kissing you, oooh
I'm kissing you, oooh
Where are you now
Where are you now
'Cause I'm kissing you
I'm kissing you, oooh
Friday, May 08, 2009
The uncertainty in life
yup yup, as many had heard abt my change of job... many one start asking, "why a change? especially at this very moment..."
the ans is... no matter which moment i were to join this field, everyone will say its a bad timing... so... dun ever tell me its isn't the rite time... ;)
anyway, jus did a tarot reading wif timmy agn... haha... recalling the good old times when every weekend i'll mit this shi fu of mine @ ecp for some 'spiritual session'... pls dun ask me if its accurate... its up to individual to believe in it... anyway, we dun do prediction, we ain't god... we dun predict... wat we do is mind searching... when u feel confuse, feel tired of things, when u need to noe wat is within ur mind... yup, we do mind searching, telling u wats ur inner thots... and yup, i did one for career... and wat it says? a rather positive reading... its a good choice, its tough at the beginning, but there will be result in long run... jus tat i hav to keep on renew my passion, keep my passion burning... shall take note of it...
anyway, yup, toking abt life... these days i been miting up wif ppl, toking to many different kinda ppl... and i realize that many ppl hav taken their life for granted... they r too fortunate to understand tat there's many uncertainties in life... ppl are only looking at cash in hand but din think of protecting themselves against others... ya ya... i'm preaching... watever, but its so true when i see many ppl fallen ill... fighting against illness, winning the battle as well as losing the battle... the mentality of everyone, "won't be so lucky one lah! i won't get these illness cos i'm still young, cos i'm healthy"... but there's no concrete evidence that show them no chance of illness... when things happen, ppl will start to regret, will start to blame the whole world, but in the 1st plc when insurance agent approach them, they gif excuses like 'i dun believe in this, i'm not interested.' u're not uninterested in insurance, but uninterested in ur well being... sad to say...
once illness fall upon, sorry to say tat: no insurance company will take this application... before u even think of getting insurance, pls see that insurance company are also picking on u guys... i do admit tat we work for the sake of money, but agn, dun u agree that if something were to happen to u, u receive a lump sum of money, u're the one who benefit, not me... if nth happens to u, as it reach maturity, u got back every single u put in plus bonus, who benefit? u or me..?
ok ok... enuff of all this... bear wif me ba... things like this will keep appearing in my blog every now and den, especially when i'm still in this trade... =)
the ans is... no matter which moment i were to join this field, everyone will say its a bad timing... so... dun ever tell me its isn't the rite time... ;)
anyway, jus did a tarot reading wif timmy agn... haha... recalling the good old times when every weekend i'll mit this shi fu of mine @ ecp for some 'spiritual session'... pls dun ask me if its accurate... its up to individual to believe in it... anyway, we dun do prediction, we ain't god... we dun predict... wat we do is mind searching... when u feel confuse, feel tired of things, when u need to noe wat is within ur mind... yup, we do mind searching, telling u wats ur inner thots... and yup, i did one for career... and wat it says? a rather positive reading... its a good choice, its tough at the beginning, but there will be result in long run... jus tat i hav to keep on renew my passion, keep my passion burning... shall take note of it...
anyway, yup, toking abt life... these days i been miting up wif ppl, toking to many different kinda ppl... and i realize that many ppl hav taken their life for granted... they r too fortunate to understand tat there's many uncertainties in life... ppl are only looking at cash in hand but din think of protecting themselves against others... ya ya... i'm preaching... watever, but its so true when i see many ppl fallen ill... fighting against illness, winning the battle as well as losing the battle... the mentality of everyone, "won't be so lucky one lah! i won't get these illness cos i'm still young, cos i'm healthy"... but there's no concrete evidence that show them no chance of illness... when things happen, ppl will start to regret, will start to blame the whole world, but in the 1st plc when insurance agent approach them, they gif excuses like 'i dun believe in this, i'm not interested.' u're not uninterested in insurance, but uninterested in ur well being... sad to say...
once illness fall upon, sorry to say tat: no insurance company will take this application... before u even think of getting insurance, pls see that insurance company are also picking on u guys... i do admit tat we work for the sake of money, but agn, dun u agree that if something were to happen to u, u receive a lump sum of money, u're the one who benefit, not me... if nth happens to u, as it reach maturity, u got back every single u put in plus bonus, who benefit? u or me..?
ok ok... enuff of all this... bear wif me ba... things like this will keep appearing in my blog every now and den, especially when i'm still in this trade... =)
Saturday, May 02, 2009
a period of darkness
so far, i consider this period as one of my darkness... there's so many uncertainty... be it r/s, work, life, frens... mostly it come from the inner struggle...
alot of challenges is out waiting for me...getting tired... but life goes on... i can't afford to abandon anything just for an easy way out...
alot of challenges is out waiting for me...getting tired... but life goes on... i can't afford to abandon anything just for an easy way out...
Thursday, April 30, 2009
OX
Ox people are hard-working and persistent, they can stick at a task longer and go at it harder than anybody. They believe in themselves and tend to classify almost everything into two basic categories, bad and good. They hold up their high standards as a model and severely judge those who don't aspire to maintain these same ideals.
Ox people are not social or party animals, they tend to be quiet when in a party. Although appears to be tranquil, in fact, Oxens are ponderous but impulsive when angry. They are capable of fearsome rages, therefore, it is better not to cross an Oxen.
Ox people are observant, they have remarkable memories and are good at reporting on absolutely everything they observe. Go ask an Oxen if he remembers who were at the party 8 months ago, most likely, he will name them one by one to you.
In the home, the Ox is a great guy to have around. In business, the OX can succeed in the arts, a contracting business, or an estate., thanks to their creative nature. And since an Ox is intelligent and good at his hands, he can be a good surgeon as well.
Ox people are stubborn and dogmatic, they believe in their decision and will never regret. They are also very close to their families. disappointedly, Oxens often find that those who are close to them fail to understand them. Nevertheless, they are patient, and caring and that makes the Oxen the best friend you can ever have.
Oxens are very responsible and loyal. Ox people are seldom jealous. but they will be jealous of their rights; and the fidelity of a husband or a wife is one of their rights. They are very family-oriented, conservative and faithful.
The Ox works hard, patiently, and methodically, with original intelligence and reflective thought. These people enjoy helping others. Behind this tenacious, laboring, and self-sacrificing exterior lies an active mind. While their balance and strength inspire confidence, Oxen can seem rigid, obstinate, and slow. They impress others as leaders, fearing neither responsibility nor risk. However, sometimes they must labor long hours to accomplish little.
The Chinese say the time of year and day an Ox is born is important in determining lifestyle. One woman in Hong Kong bragged that she would always be financially provided for with minimal effort on her part because she was born on a winter night. Oxen have little to do during the winter months, she explained, because the sweat of summer and fall harvesting is over and it is up to the farmer to feed and keep the oxen warm so they'll have strength for spring planting. Oxen born during agricultural months, however, are sentenced to a life of hard labor.
People born under the influence of the Ox are kind, caring souls, logical, positive, filled with common sense and with their feet firmly planted on the ground. Security is their main preoccupation in life, and they are prepared to toil long and hard in order to provide a warm, comfortable and stable nest for themselves and their families. Strong-minded, stubborn, individualistic, the majority are highly intelligent individuals who doen't take kindly to being told what to do.
Although Ox people don't ask to be put in the limelight, they do like to be boss, for these quietly dominant types enjoy being in positions of power. Oxen try to instill in those around them the rigor, determination and power of work which they themselves possess. Respecting others, they are always open to a dialogue. Even though they may not broadcast their virtues to the world, nevertheless it is that steady, conscientious attitude that will deservedly see them to the top.
The Oxen's childhood and youth will generally be without incident. It is in the second part of their lives that they will encounter difficulties to do with their marriage. Their partners may well take offense at their apparent indifference and seek consolation elsewhere in an attempt to find the romance so conspicuously absent at home. If this happens and the Ox cannot put things right by the exercise of intelligence, the ruin of the entire family may be risked as Oxen have no time for a deviation they are unable to understand. During the third part of life, Oxen may suffer enormous difficulties but if they can manage to smooth them out, their old age will be peaceful.
The Affectionate Ox
Oxen make solid, steady, reliable partners. They can be tender, devoted, sensual even -- but they are never romantic. Very affectionate to those close to their hearts, they are cool and distant to anyone outside their emotional circle. Getting close to an Ox is a very difficult thing to do, for they hold all but their chosen few at arm's length. However, once they have committed themselves, they make loyal, steadfast lovers and are the least likely of all the signs to possess a roving eye. Casual love affairs are definitely not the Ox's style. Although they may not show it, their emotions are deep and passionate. If their love is spurned or if they should suffer a broken heart, they will retreat inside themselves and channel all their emotions into their work. Generally, they make no mistakes in their judgment of others, successfully merging their romantic and family lives. Happily settled in a contented relationship, an Ox will make a supportive and faithful partner, someone whose love grows stronger by the year and whose sterling qualities are worth his or her weight in gold.
The Rooster, Rat and Serpent get on very well with Oxen. There are struggles and problems with the Monkey, and a lack of understanding with the Ram and the Boar.
Popular belief is adamant that the Ox should under no circumstances set up house with the Tiger. Such a partnership would inevitably end in a battle that could terminate only with the departure or disappearance of the Tiger. The Ox, the stronger of the two, would keep on charging until the Tiger was destroyed. An Ox mother could never get on with a Tiger child -- better for the latter to leave home!
February is the month of the Ox. The time of the Ox is from 1:00 a.m. to 2:59 a.m.; their direction of orientation is north-northeast. The Ox's color is violet.
Compatibility
(1 - least compatible, 100 - most compatible)
Rat 88 - A stable and steady relationship
Ox 72 - Conservative! Mutually protect & provide
Tiger 33 - Almost impossible to make it work.
Rabbit 72 - This could work.
Dragon 52 - Don't, two of you will fight constantly.
Snake 85 - This union can be a good one.
Horse 37 - Unfortunately, they are part.
Sheep 56 - Probably not.
Monkey 81 - Nice. They are compatible and stable.
Rooster 86 - You are lucky enough to find each other.
Dog 62 - Difficult, but possible.
Pig 69 - why not, it worths a try.
Ox people are not social or party animals, they tend to be quiet when in a party. Although appears to be tranquil, in fact, Oxens are ponderous but impulsive when angry. They are capable of fearsome rages, therefore, it is better not to cross an Oxen.
Ox people are observant, they have remarkable memories and are good at reporting on absolutely everything they observe. Go ask an Oxen if he remembers who were at the party 8 months ago, most likely, he will name them one by one to you.
In the home, the Ox is a great guy to have around. In business, the OX can succeed in the arts, a contracting business, or an estate., thanks to their creative nature. And since an Ox is intelligent and good at his hands, he can be a good surgeon as well.
Ox people are stubborn and dogmatic, they believe in their decision and will never regret. They are also very close to their families. disappointedly, Oxens often find that those who are close to them fail to understand them. Nevertheless, they are patient, and caring and that makes the Oxen the best friend you can ever have.
Oxens are very responsible and loyal. Ox people are seldom jealous. but they will be jealous of their rights; and the fidelity of a husband or a wife is one of their rights. They are very family-oriented, conservative and faithful.
The Ox works hard, patiently, and methodically, with original intelligence and reflective thought. These people enjoy helping others. Behind this tenacious, laboring, and self-sacrificing exterior lies an active mind. While their balance and strength inspire confidence, Oxen can seem rigid, obstinate, and slow. They impress others as leaders, fearing neither responsibility nor risk. However, sometimes they must labor long hours to accomplish little.
The Chinese say the time of year and day an Ox is born is important in determining lifestyle. One woman in Hong Kong bragged that she would always be financially provided for with minimal effort on her part because she was born on a winter night. Oxen have little to do during the winter months, she explained, because the sweat of summer and fall harvesting is over and it is up to the farmer to feed and keep the oxen warm so they'll have strength for spring planting. Oxen born during agricultural months, however, are sentenced to a life of hard labor.
People born under the influence of the Ox are kind, caring souls, logical, positive, filled with common sense and with their feet firmly planted on the ground. Security is their main preoccupation in life, and they are prepared to toil long and hard in order to provide a warm, comfortable and stable nest for themselves and their families. Strong-minded, stubborn, individualistic, the majority are highly intelligent individuals who doen't take kindly to being told what to do.
Although Ox people don't ask to be put in the limelight, they do like to be boss, for these quietly dominant types enjoy being in positions of power. Oxen try to instill in those around them the rigor, determination and power of work which they themselves possess. Respecting others, they are always open to a dialogue. Even though they may not broadcast their virtues to the world, nevertheless it is that steady, conscientious attitude that will deservedly see them to the top.
The Oxen's childhood and youth will generally be without incident. It is in the second part of their lives that they will encounter difficulties to do with their marriage. Their partners may well take offense at their apparent indifference and seek consolation elsewhere in an attempt to find the romance so conspicuously absent at home. If this happens and the Ox cannot put things right by the exercise of intelligence, the ruin of the entire family may be risked as Oxen have no time for a deviation they are unable to understand. During the third part of life, Oxen may suffer enormous difficulties but if they can manage to smooth them out, their old age will be peaceful.
The Affectionate Ox
Oxen make solid, steady, reliable partners. They can be tender, devoted, sensual even -- but they are never romantic. Very affectionate to those close to their hearts, they are cool and distant to anyone outside their emotional circle. Getting close to an Ox is a very difficult thing to do, for they hold all but their chosen few at arm's length. However, once they have committed themselves, they make loyal, steadfast lovers and are the least likely of all the signs to possess a roving eye. Casual love affairs are definitely not the Ox's style. Although they may not show it, their emotions are deep and passionate. If their love is spurned or if they should suffer a broken heart, they will retreat inside themselves and channel all their emotions into their work. Generally, they make no mistakes in their judgment of others, successfully merging their romantic and family lives. Happily settled in a contented relationship, an Ox will make a supportive and faithful partner, someone whose love grows stronger by the year and whose sterling qualities are worth his or her weight in gold.
The Rooster, Rat and Serpent get on very well with Oxen. There are struggles and problems with the Monkey, and a lack of understanding with the Ram and the Boar.
Popular belief is adamant that the Ox should under no circumstances set up house with the Tiger. Such a partnership would inevitably end in a battle that could terminate only with the departure or disappearance of the Tiger. The Ox, the stronger of the two, would keep on charging until the Tiger was destroyed. An Ox mother could never get on with a Tiger child -- better for the latter to leave home!
February is the month of the Ox. The time of the Ox is from 1:00 a.m. to 2:59 a.m.; their direction of orientation is north-northeast. The Ox's color is violet.
Compatibility
(1 - least compatible, 100 - most compatible)
Rat 88 - A stable and steady relationship
Ox 72 - Conservative! Mutually protect & provide
Tiger 33 - Almost impossible to make it work.
Rabbit 72 - This could work.
Dragon 52 - Don't, two of you will fight constantly.
Snake 85 - This union can be a good one.
Horse 37 - Unfortunately, they are part.
Sheep 56 - Probably not.
Monkey 81 - Nice. They are compatible and stable.
Rooster 86 - You are lucky enough to find each other.
Dog 62 - Difficult, but possible.
Pig 69 - why not, it worths a try.
Saturday, March 21, 2009
曲名：我要快乐
歌手：张惠妹
又被爱伤了一遍
无所谓 当作成长
刚刚走开的人
烟还点着 味道却淡了
我并不是天生爱寂寞
却比任何人都多
就算把世界给我
我还是一无所有
我要快乐我要能睡的安稳
有些人不抱了才温暖
离开了才不恨 我早应该割舍
我要快乐 哪怕笑的再大声
心不是热的 全都是假的
只有眼泪是真的
把从前想了一遍
谢谢了 伤我的人
想做乐观的人
每种雨声 听了都不冷
我并不是天生爱寂寞
却比任何人都多
就算把世界给我
我还是一无所有
我要快乐我要能睡的安稳
有些人不抱了才温暖
离开了才不恨 我早应该割舍
我要快乐 哪怕笑的再大声
心不是热的 全都是假的
我的决定是对的
Thursday, March 19, 2009
Just totally, entirely tired..
its been ages since i last blog... so much things tat i always wanted to write abt, so many time i'm been distracted, and fail to blog abt...
some times life just unpredictable, terribly sux... ppl are not who they seems to be... not saying that anyone being bad but jus ppl try to hide abt their feelings, try to assume things, try to avoid... sometimes i feel my life being empty... empty in a way, there's nth much to really happy abt, there's neither anything to be sad abt... i dun leads a roller coaster life i'll say... unlike the past, when i can express my feelings to my close ones... i begin to believe in forgetting... which i realize its nv forgotten but jus avoidance... not tat my frens had changed or had left me, but i just can't seems to really let myself cry out wat within me... being to hard to myself maybe, but am jus to use to force myself, sharing joyful things but not bad times... its like being handicapped... buried myself in other biz to divert my attention somewhere, thou' during quiet times, i still ponder abt things... sometimes i blame myself for being too harsh on things, too harsh on ppl... but its like the way i feel towards relationship... wat done is done, wat done can't be undone... i'll reflect, but i will nv regret... cos regret can't bring u back to where u start... there's future to look toward but not past...
having a long long break... this long break have somehow kill me in a way... one can't be left doing nth... they will lost their mind... not to mention abt ppl like me, who thinks and analyze too much... i'm tired of tearing, tired of explaining, tired of getting pissed, tired of feeling sux, tired of complaining, tired of life, tired of pain... tired of life, but i noe that it won't end so soon and i hav to continue and try to improve my life... this tiredness have somehow push me to a limit... to the extend i wish to isolate myself for awhile... at times i'm proud of being myself... but at time i hate myself for who i am... someone jus taught me something abt the word 'assume', 'assume' is make an ASS out of U & ME... so nv assume, jus do...
always... i feel... no one had really understand me tat well... or i had nv gif anyone a chance to understand me... again, something hit me... the slogan tat i used to say when am in my poly life : "no one owe u anything, hence no one need to take ur nonsense"... this verse come running in my mind agn... agn, i begin to push myself hard... wan myself to be independent, even if i noe i'm not really like tat... maybe ppl ard had bought the image i try to create... i dun wish to admit tat i need to sometimes fall back on someone becos i'm not as strong as i appear to be... in a way, i dun allow myself to appear weak... I'm fine, i'm really fine... its jus back to sq one... in life, there's alway bad times... jus like recession, it will always come back, its jus abt the duration, how long this whole shit will last...
some stuffs in life can nv belong to anyone, and one can't really own anybody, except themselves... like i always say, i came to this world alone, i gng to leave this world alone also... even if the whole world forsake me, i must nv forsake myself... its only me who noe how to love me and truely love me...
am too tired... too tired to say much... too tired to do much... too tired to explain much... too tired of having expectations... too tired of being demanding... too tired to recover things... maybe its jus me... easily defeated...
its late... sweet dreams to me... gd luck for my tests tml... god bless...
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